Should he is your lifelong love, 142 days is never long. If not, you still have many 142 days to find your true love.

i feel so bad today...

回复3楼:what's wrong? because of 11 叔？

not him...
somebody


I thought you got sad because of 微笑的鱼’s narrative. Anyway, now I see that the guy makig you cry isn't worthy of those tears.

Why? 0.0
He is a good guy.I can list a hundred wonderful things of him.He is so good that i really like him and value him.And don't wnna let him go...

I don't think i'm influented by something.I have being bothered and confussed and feelling all kinds of hurt for a long time.Pain is always go with love,this saying is just so right and i finally realize it now.I don't know.I'm just..I always think or guess too much and bother myself.Or maybe all i thought is true.He hurt me a lot by many ways,he maybe doesn't know.And i don't dare to tell him.I don't why,I'm just afraid.I don't know.

He is so good that makes you forget how precious you yourself are. Love can be blind. But if it deprives your dignity makes you disregard yourself, then it's a disaster and never produces sweet fruit. Love lasts long only when it's based on equality, respect and self-respect. If you feel that he is too good, then he is too good for you indeed.

Agony doesn't need to be an dispensable part of love. Pain comes with incredulity，timidity and inferiority. He may not hurt you, but you are hurting yourself. The "He" can be anyone else, but you always get hurt if you don't treasure yourself. You are the precious one, make others know that; and most importantly, realize it yourself first.

If he is so good that deserves all your affection, be brave and chase after him, show him how good you are, prove that you merit equal quantity of love and tears from him. Don't be upset and weep in the corner. Be more positive and active, fighting!

You might misunderstanded a little.Like i am not unconfident,i know i'm good and there is nothing unequal between us.The thing is he dosen't wan't anything else except friendship or smoething.He just doesn't feel that way.And i respect him enough to hide my mind from him,like i can just be like a friend .I don't know how to explain it to you.I could act like i dont care smothing and i am just like your friend before him,be a happy girl and a good friend and all.I would blessing him and his girlfriend and hide my sadness.I can do it,but it's just make me feel sad.
But i think this is the only way that i can remain our relationship.
He doesn't talk to me much these days.He is a little wierd to me now and i don't why.Maybe he is trying to help me get out of this since i told him i like him.By talking to me less and don't tease me around any more.Hope i can loose my passion and maybe forget him.Yeah,he wants me to forget him!See,i don't think he even cares about me any more.But he cared.That is the sad part too.That someone made you feel special before now make you feel unneeded.Or maybe i just think he is tired and dont wanna talk,he'll be ok and tease me around agian.By the way i love the way he tease me.But this is maybe only self comfort.I dont know is he thingking.It confussed me a lot.And this make me feel sad.I mean,I really dont want him to dont talk with me on purpose.That will kill me - -

I see your situation now. Don't be too sensitive and overreact. A man has lots of reasonsto be quite and not talk much. Maybe he is not in good mood but not necessarily because of you. Neither it means he is avoiding you. I guess he now must be distressed about your relationship and doesn't know what to do as you do. Put yourself in his shoes, you will know how hard it is. So, before you two figure out a way that make both of you feel comfortable, please give him some time and space, and for yourself also.
I'm sure you will work it out someday. But before that day comes, you had better identify what you actually want. Should you just want to be a friend and stay around him like you have never crushed on him? Are you able to watch he and his girl friend play around and you don't have a word? If your answer is "yes", then you probably need to learn to treat him as a friend from now on. A friend like any other friends you have, like 911, like 征哥, like me. You then cannot show any love to him, you should control yourself and hide your feelings. It would be cruel and painful. But it's the only way to keep your friendship and not hurt his emotion.
Or you don't want to be a normal friend of him. You want to be his girl someday if chances come. Then you probably need to find a way to gain his affection, to change his mind. However, I don't have any workable advice then. And since he has a girl friend now, if you do feel he and his current girl friend suit each other well or his girl friend is more suitable than you, then the possibility is minimal.
But as far as I see, the most possible solution is that your enthusiasm for him will cooldown as time goes. You are still young and there are many people for you to meet before you, of course many good boys. It's hardly possible to meet one's lifelong love at a age of 15. But I'm not saying you should fall in love with others, It's necessary to love and just enjoy it no matter it tortures or comforts. Anyway, all those will become the best memory of your life. At your age, I fell in love with many beautiful girls and thought they were my destiny. Now I know it's wrong. It's still to early for us to make a conclusion of our life. However, I never regret about my young love. Many years later, I can smile about what I have ever done.
Love is the most beautiful thing, you know that.

I guess he now must be distressed about your relationship and doesn't know what to do as you do.
These words are so true....well i think so.I don't what to say then.Anyway i'll waite and see.