12. They cannot take any kind of criticism, and will become defensive and emotional when criticised
　经不起任何批评，被批评时会表现得极具防御性和情绪化
13. They don't like to make decisions, and will put it off as long as possible
　不喜欢做决定，尽可能地延迟做决定的时间
14. They often view decisions with absolute finality, and don't realize that they can change their mind later
　一旦决定，便将其视为“最终决定”，意识不到自己稍后仍可改变主意
15. They naturally move slowly doing things, which makes them sometimes appear lazy
　做事慢条斯理，有时显得懒惰
16. They have trouble asserting themselves
　难以坚持自我
IFP学习方式 IFP Learning Style
IFPs often are dreamy and imaginative children, and may seem to be off in their own world. They usually excel in the Humanities, such as English (Writing), Music, Art, and History. They will be interested in Science classes that have a clear human connection, such as Biology.
IFP儿童通常喜好梦想，想象力丰富，看似沉迷在自己的世界中。通常擅长人文学科，例如语文（作文）、音乐、艺术、历史。对于科学中与明显与人有关的科目（如生物学）会感兴趣。
IFPs will resist doing tasks that seem impersonal, for which they can't see how it affects the human element. Presenting sheerly logical tasks within the framework of how performing the task helps humans will help the IFP face the task more willingly. Logic is still not their strong point, so patience learning these kinds of tasks will have to be shown. Since they're not naturally logical and they don't naturally see the value of sheer logic, the IFP is at a disadvantage with these kinds of lessons.
IFP会抵制那些看上去缺少人情味儿的科目，因为他们看不出来这对人们到底有什么用。如果跟IFP说清楚纯粹逻辑的框架对人类的帮助，会让他们更乐于面对这一科。但逻辑仍是他们的弱项，在学习这科时得更有耐心才行。因为并不能自然地接受逻辑，也不容易看到纯粹逻辑的价值，IFP在这门功课上处于劣势。
IFPs have trouble making decisions about which project they want to do, or which class they want to take, etc. They are often fearful of making decisions because they think that they are final and unalterable, and they're afraid of making the wrong choice. IFP children should be helped to make these kinds of decisions on their own, and they should be supported and encouraged in the decisions that they make. Positive reinforcement will help the IFP to trust their decision-making abilities.
在选专业与选课程这类需要做决定的事情上，IFP会遇到麻烦。他们往往对做决定很是恐惧，因为他们认为决定就意味着是最终的和不可更改的，又生怕自己做了错误的选择。旁人应当在这类需要做决定的事上帮着IFP儿童，让他们学会自己做决定，并且得到鼓励和支持。积极的支持会帮助IFP更信任自己做决定的能力。
IFP children have trouble following through on projects. They may lose interest halfway through, and move onto the next exciting project. IFP children need to learn the value of finishing what they start. They will not finish all of their projects, but they can be expected to finish at least the larger, more important projects that they have begun. This should be encouraged with a reward system, rather than a punishment system. IFPs are often crushed by punishment and criticism.


IFP儿童在完成项目（作业）上会有麻烦，他们可能做到一半便兴趣缺缺，转而去做下一项令他们兴奋的项目。IFP儿童需要懂得慎始敬终的重要性。他们或许不能完成所有的项目，但至少可能完成大部分重要的，他们已经开始做的那些。在这里奖励制度，而不是惩罚制度会更能鼓励他们——通常IFP一被惩罚或批评就垮了。
IFP children are frequently scattered in their priorities, and dislike making decisions or commiting themselves to one particular idea. To combat this tendency, teachers and other adults should frequently tell IFP children to "pick one thing and do it well". Engraining this idea in the IFP's mind will offer a significant gift to the developing IFP, and the adult that they will become.
IFP的儿童经常分散精力，不喜欢做决定或是专注于某一件事上。为了纠正这种习惯，教师和其他成人应经常向IFP儿童强调“选择了一件事，就努力做好”。帮助IFP强化这一观念会对他们的成长极有助益，乃至会影响到他们的成年。
When giving constructive criticism or a poor grade to an IFP, also give some positive feedback so that the IFP is not frightened off from doing that type of task again in the future.
当批评IFP或者给他们打较低的分数时，同时也得给他们一些积极的回应，免得IFP一受打击，下次就不想做类似的任务了。
IFP的特殊需要 IFP Special Needs
The biggest stumbling block for IFP children (and for IFP adults) is their extreme sensitivity. IFP kids need to learn and understand that conflict is not something they should always take to heart. The IFP's opinion of himself or herself is largely influenced by other people's opinion of them. If the IFP feel unconditional love and acceptance, they are more likely to feel self-confident, and will be able to handle some criticism. However, IFP's will probably have a lifelong issue with feeling things passionately, and with taking any criticism completely to heart. When correcting an IFP, a parent should always include some positive comment about the IFP along with the negative. This will help the child to know that a specific criticism is not an indictment of their entire character.
IFP儿童（以及IFP成人）会遇到的最大的障碍就是他们自身极为敏感。IFP儿童得学着去明白，矛盾冲突不是他们总得放在心上的事儿。IFP的眼中的自我与旁人对他们的评价息息相关。如果IFP感到自己是无条件的被爱与接纳着的，他们可能会感到更加自信，更能经得起批评。然而，IFP可能终其一生都会对待事物太动感情，将所有的批评都往心里去。当纠正IFP时，家长始终要在批评他们的同时给他们一些积极评价。这将有助于让他们明白，特定的批评不等于对他们人格的全盘否定。
Their strong service-oriented attitide is in some ways very sweet and gratifying, but it also can create problems for the IFP child if they are more interested in pleasing people than in anything else. There will be situations presented to the child in which they will not be able to please everyone. The child needs to understand that it's sometimes OK to do something that might make someone else unhappy. They need to understand that if someone is unhappy with something that the IFP has done, that doesn't mean that they hate the IFP child. Avoiding making others upset or unhappy is an admirable goal, but it can't always be done.


我好像是啊，好多都符合，不过我好像是在做阅读理解啊