回复：我们为什么会饭星？我从饭星中得到了什么？

我望着贴吧内的偶像们，第一次觉得好无聊。我为什么要饭星？我从饭星中得到了什么？
毋庸讳言，我也得到了许多，结识了许多温暖的朋友，也看到了许多聪慧的孩子。
可是，我也失去了许多啊。我放着一大堆的工作不做，昨天在贴吧逗留到凌晨4点半，我真的是疯了。今天不好的投票结果让我心里很沮丧，我是不是真的输不起？
我想起了比尔盖茨说的话——
　　“Success is a lousy teacher. It seduces smart people into thinking they can't lose。”“成功是一个坏老师，它会误导聪明人觉得自己不会失败。”
　　　　"It's fine to celebrate success, but it is more important to heed the lessons of failure."“庆祝成功没有什么不好，但是从失败中吸取经验教训更重要。”
　　　　“Life's not fair, get over it!”“生活本就不公平，不公平也要过下去！”
　　　　"In this business, by the time you realize you're in trouble, it's too late to save yourself. Unless you're running scared all the time, you're gone."
“在这个行业中，当你意识到自己有麻烦了，就已经太晚了。除非你时刻都在恐惧中前行，不然你就完蛋了。”

“除非你时刻都在恐惧中前行，不然你就完蛋了。”
麻痹大意是一切失败的源头。我又一次麻痹大意了。
我真的应该彻底退出贴吧，没意思，真的很没意思，无聊。第一次发现，善良，也会使自己沮丧。
我得到了许多，也失去了许多。得，和失，孰轻孰重？

俊秀有一双坚毅，始终向前看的眼睛

【陈道明四句话，让你受益终身】1.不要盘算太多，要顺其自然。该是你的终会得到。2.压抑自己没必要，奉承巴结也没必要。保持应有的人格力量将赢得更多机会和尊重。3.不要对谁特别好，也不要对谁特别不好。永远不要被少数人所利用。4.相信自己比依赖别人重要。用尽心机不如静心做事。
你若爱，生活哪里都可爱。你若恨，生活哪里都可恨。你若感恩，处处可感恩。你若成长，事事可成长。不是世界选择了你，是你选择了这个世界。——丰子恺
【命运多舛的励志人生】22岁母亲被暗杀；27岁父亲也被暗杀；54岁被毁容，右脸上划出长达11厘米的伤口，缝了17针；55岁竞选失败；最终在60岁当选总统。她就是韩国女总统朴槿惠。
【曾国藩：从政八经】1.做人一定要像人，做官不可像官；2.按本色做人，按角色办事；3.把所有人都得罪，也就谁都不得罪了；4.有油水的地方最滑，爬起来站稳都难；5.沉默是种态度，拖也是种方法；6.不怕群众骂你，就怕群众不找你；7.可以得罪忙人，不可得罪闲人；8.小胜靠智，大胜靠德。
当我们远离了言语与是非，我们的一切存在也就真实地显露了本来的价值。上一刻，我们可能幸福地流泪，下一刻，我们可能悲哀的哭泣，但，路，总是不断地，河，总是不停地，向前穿行。—— 林清玄

若和别人交往，你要彻底地知道，你只是他的一个选择，不是他的唯一，你也只能把他当成你的一个选择，而不是你生命中的某个优先。不要轻易去依赖一个人，它会成为你的习惯，当分别来临，你失去的不是某个人，而是你精神的拐杖。无论何时何地，都要学会独立行走，它会让你走得更坦然些。
Treat everyone politely, even those who are rude to you - not because they are nice, but because you are. 礼貌地对待每一个人，即使那些对你粗鲁的人，不是因为他们人好，而是因为你是好人！

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杨坤也是忘我的唱歌，自己都沉浸到自己的歌里，才能让听者感动
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May it be an evening star
祝愿夜幕明星
Shines down upon you (将光华铺撒满你)
将光华铺撒满你身上
May it be when darkness falls
祈愿当黑暗降临时
Your heart will be true
你的心依然坚定
You walk a lonely road
你孤身一人在路上
Oh! How far you are from home
啊，你已离家那么遥远
Mornie utúlië (darkness has come)
莫尼耶,乌图利耶 （黑暗即将来临）
Believe and you will find your way
信仰会指引你的方向
Mornie alantië (darkness has fallen)
莫尼耶,乌图利耶（黑暗即将离去）
A promise lives within you now
这诺言从今与你同在
May it be the shadows call (标准CALL翻译是叫,命令)
祈愿黑暗的召唤
Will fly away (标准翻译:会飞走)
终将烟消云散
May it be you journey on
祝愿你在旅途上
To light the day
从不黯淡
When the night is overcome
当黑夜不再让你畏惧
You may rise to find the sun (原意标准:译你可能会上升看到太阳)
你将起来,看到太阳
Mornie utúlië (darkness has come)
黑暗已经来临
Believe and you will find your way (原意标准译:相信你会找你自己的路)
信仰会指引你的方向
Mornie alantië (darkness has fallen)
黑暗即将离去
A promise lives within you now (lives没有作翻译,真义是生命,一生,人生)
这诺言从今与你同在

【What Love Is Not】发布时间：2012-12-30
文章出自：thoughtcatalog.com
Love is not what the movies and hit songs tell us it is.
Love doesn’t hurt. If it hurts it’s something else. Fear. Attachment. Idolatry. Addiction. Possessiveness.
Nobody’s heart aches out of love. In pop culture, love gets conflated with desire all the time. From childhood we learn you can like something, or you can love it, as if it’s only different degrees of the same thing.
Love is all selflessness. It’s the opposite of need and attachment. To an individual it’s a sensation of allowing, rather than seeking. Letting go, rather than grasping.
Love is subtle and silent and delicate, and in its beginnings it can be drowned out easily by attachment, lust and fear. Love must have space, and force is what crowds it out. Love is powerful but it isn’t forceful.
Desire is simple and often reckless. We need to manage it carefully to avoid causing harm. Desire is the intention to change something, to reject what it is in favor of what it could be — something better, more secure, more pleasing. Love is the intention to let that thing be for its own sake.
A lot of us grow up thinking that to love is simply to want very badly. It’s hard to be sensitive to love when you’re overrun by desire. Love isn’t something that can be done badly, if it’s love at all. Desire can happen at the same time as love, but it’s not the same thing.
Jealousy isn’t love, nor is it evidence of love. Jealousy is fear. Love doesn’t drive people mad, it drives them sane. Desire, in its different forms, can drive people to do anything. Love never drives people to kill or steal or cheat or worry.
Love reveals itself when you release your need to have the object of your affection, and see that there’s no reason to make it yours. That it exists at all is enough. To love something is to disappear in its favor — to die to your own interests so that it can be what it is.
In evolutionary time, love is new, and we’re still learning to used to it. It’s a much more sophisticated human capability than desire.
Desire’s been around forever. It’s a high-horsepower engine. It’s loud. It handles poorly. It only goes the way it’s pointing. It needs a sober driver, but it makes you drunk.
Desires are personal. They’re attached to you and they end where you end. They can be no bigger than you.
Love is bigger than you. To love someone is for their happiness to be the same as your own.
And so love is the dissolution of the borders between you and me and them. Those lines are conceptual and imaginary anyway, and love gives you vision clear enough to see the world without them.
Your love can’t be reserved for one person. If you only love one person you probably don’t love anyone. Love isn’t something you can aim. The truer your love is — in other words, the less you have it confused with something else — the more generalized it becomes. To love fully is to love all.
It takes practice to give up “good for me” in the name of “good.” In the grand scale of evolutionary time, human beings are only at the beginning of experimenting with this — working with something bigger and more important than personal desire.
But love is already everywhere, at least in the background. It’s too conspicuous to be marginalized, even among a population largely driven insane by mismanaged desire. We need to learn to navigate our desires better in order to love fully. We’re working on it.
It’s an interesting time to be alive. We’re graduating from a culture of desire-driven lives to one of love-driven lives. The solution to the world’s problems will look more and more obvious as more people begin to understand that and make that transformation. The first step is knowing the difference.
Defining it is impossible. You can throw words at it but never pin it down. Nothing is misidentified more often than love. But for now, we can know what it’s not. If it hurts, it’s not love.