1. Be confident. "When someone knows who he is, that's a trait that is sexy to the opposite sex. When you're confident, it shows. You walk into a room and people immediately think you're sexy. Realize that no matter who you are, you have a lot to offer other people. That will boost your confidence. If you have a good sense of humor or are sharp and witty, be confident in that." 1. 要有自信 “异性们会因为知道他是什么样的人而认为他很性感。因为当你富有自信时,别人会感觉得到的。就比如你才进了个屋子,人们就立刻知道你很性感。你要明白不管你是谁长啥样儿,你都可以有很多可以给予他人的感觉,而这也会提高你的自信心。就比如说你很幽默或者你很聪慧机智,就要对自己的长处有自信!”
3. Be chivalrous. "A real man is a gentleman. You open her door. You let her order first. It's a good way of showing that you care about making her happy. That's sexy." 3. 要有骑士风范 “只有真正的男人才算绅士。因为你能够打开她的心门,理解她。因为你总是处处先顾着她。能够让她知道你关心她的喜怒哀乐真的是极好的。那真心性感。”
4. Compliment her. "Men need to realize what it takes for a woman. She works so hard. She gets up way before us to get everything done. So you have to compliment her on things that she has accomplished. And when you compliment her looks, choose something that took a lot of work. It shows that you care and appreciate all she does. Saying 'Your nails look beautiful' can go a long way in making her feel good about herself. You're sexy when you make her feel sexy." 4. 要学会恭维她 “男人需要明白一个女人为了自己都牺牲了什么。她工作那么辛苦,她每天比谁起的都早就是为了把一切都布置好让你舒舒服服的生活。所以你真的需要恭维那些她完成的事情。比如说你要是想夸她好看,一定要选择她费半天劲完善自己的那些事情,因为这表现了你在意她也欣赏她所有做的事情。举个例子啊,'你指甲弄得很漂亮'这句话可以让她为自己高兴半天呢。因为当你让她觉得自己很性感时,你也变得性感了。”