happiness is associated with selfish "taking "behavior and that having a sense of meaning in life is associated with selfless “giving ”behavior. 幸福与自私的索取行为相关，而生活中有意义的感觉与无私的给予行为有关。

happiness without meaning characterizes a relatively shallow. self-absorbed or even selfish life, in which things go well, needs and desires are easily satisfied, and complicated relationships are avoided.
if anything, pure happiness is linked to not helping others in need,while being happy is feeling good, meaning is derived from contributing to others or to society in a bigger way.
partly what we do as human beings is to take care of others and contribute to others. this make life meaingful but it does not necessarily make us happy.
没有意义的幸福是以一种比较肤浅、自我专注甚至自私的生活为特征的。在这种生活中，事情一帆风顺，需求和欲望很容易满足，复杂的人际关系被规避掉。
纯粹的幸福是和不去帮助需要帮助的人联系在一起的。
尽管幸福是一种美好的感觉，而意义则源自于对他人和社会有更多的贡献。
我们作为人类的部分职责就是要照顾他人，对他人有所贡献，这会让生活变得有意义，但它未必会让我们幸福。

we are always tolerant to acquaintances but picky to those who are closest to us.
我们总对他人宽容，却苛刻那些最亲近的人。

arts and humanities courses are much more varied. all doubtless nourish the soul, but not all fatten the wallet.
艺术和人文学科有更多变数，所有这些无疑都能滋养人的灵魂，但是并非所有会让钱包鼓起来。

when people feeling confident. they are focused on the task at hand. not on themselves. they use fewer “I ”words.
自信的人会全神贯注于手头的任务，而不是他们自己，他们很少会使用“我”这种词。

females feel the presure to be perfect on a regular basis. 女性经常感到要变得完美的压力。
their sense of worth comes from within. 她们的价值感来自于内在。
and that's looking past physical beauty and just celebrating something unique within yourself that isn't so apparent. 那就是透过外在美去看，去赞美你内在中但不是那么明显却又独一无二的东西。

Nobody is after you
没有人别有用心

Perfect is not just about control. it's also about letting go.完美不仅仅在于控制，也在于放开。

this is to be expected.its hard to imagine what we havent yet seen.
do not readily believe in new things until they have had a long experience of them.
you kind of lose your bearings.
and your life could become unrecognizable.
这是可以预料到的，要想象我们还没有见过的东西是很困难的。
在没有适应新事物之前，是不会相信它们的。
你可能会有些不知所措，你的生活会变得面目全非。

Buried for a good厚葬
The province of dreamers梦想家的兴趣点
Struggle to follow 源源不断
They resonated with optimism and ambition in much some way两者传达的乐观与抱负有异曲同工之妙
The two dreams ended up at odds with each other两个梦想是互相矛盾的

Get the most bang from a buck大有回报
When the dust settled 当尘埃落定之时
Dispensable luxury 可有可无的奢侈
On the flip side另一方面
Rich civilians富人圈
Feed off each other 相互依存，相互促进
General optimism and pessimism count 无论乐观还是悲观

People with Alzheimer's often suffer from sun-downing.a distressed urge to wander that comes on towards the end of the afternoon
阿尔茨海默患者经常遭受日落症候群的困扰，这是在傍晚时试图四处游荡的一种躁动

Fly into rage 勃然大怒
Daily chores日常琐事
Turn on 袭击
Sort things out 解决

This is a preference rather than a request.
这只是一个倾向而非要求