Dear Mate -上帝赐我理想的伴侣
Years ago , I asked God to give me a spouse , you don’t own because you didn’t ask , God said . Not only did I ask for a spouse , but also explained what kind of spouse I wanted .
I want a nice ,tender ,forgiving , passionate,honest,peaceful,generous,understanding,pleasant,Warm,intelligent,humorous,attentive,compassionate and truthful spouse . I even mentioned the physical characteristics I dream about .As time went by I added the required list of my wanted spouse .
One night ,in my prayer ,God talked to my heart : “my servant , I cannot give you what you want.”
I asked ,why ,God ?
God said , Because I am God and I am fair . I am the truth and all I do are true and right . I asked , God , I don’t understand why I cannot have what I ask from you ?
God answered , I will explain . It is not fair and right for Me to fulfill your demand
becauseI cannot give something that is not your own self. It is not fair to give someone
who is full oflove to you if sometimes you are still hostile.or to give you someone forgiving ;however ,you still hide revenge ,someone sensitive ;however ,you are very insensitive.
He then said to me ,It is better for Me to give you someone who I know could grow to have all qualities you are searching rather than to make you waste your time to find someone who already has the qualities you want .Your spouse would be bone from your bone and flesh from your flesh and you will see yourself in her and both of you will be one.Marriage is like a school.It is where you and your partner make adjustments and aim not merely to please each other , but to be better human beings and to become a good team. I do not give you a perfect partner ,because you are not perfect either. I give you a partner with whom you would grow together.
