My dentist told me that letting go is like pulling a tooth.When it was pulled out, you're relieved, but how many times does you tongue run itself over the spot where the tooth once was? Probably a hundred times a day. Just because it was not hurting you doesn't mean you did not notice it. It leaves a gap and sometimes you see yourself missing it terribly. It's going to take a while, but it takes time. Should you have kept the tooth? No,because it was causing you so much pain. Therefore,move on and let go.1