No. 51
Quotation:
It’s easy to make judgments about people and their actions when we don’t know anything about their circumstances or what motivated them to take those actions. But we should look beyond a person’s actions. When people do things that we consider outrageous, inconsiderate, or harmful, we should try to understand why they acted as they did.
Assignment:
It is important to try to understand people’s motivations before judging their actions?
To judge a people without trying to understand his motivation is just like to evaluate one work without trying to undertake the objective standard, unfair and unreasonable. Why not do it in a great way both fair and sufficient? Trying to understand what they acted more is not only a way to make agreement, but also a way to remind ourselves some different ideas. It’s just like magic, which widen the road from heart to heart.
At the first eyes of Amy, at a prom, I couldn’t image how good she could be. With small black eyes and thin pale lips, she, like a vampire in black gown, floated in air alone. “I bet she is a girl without a friend but a big face.” I said to my friends with taunt, and they burst into laughter as response. I threw myself in to the ecstasy of the prom until that I found my necklace lost. Suddenly, worry and sorrow attacked me, and I regretted so much that I even dare not to image the how it left me without saying a “good bye”. I asked my friends for help, but they are addicted in dancing and heard nothing. Finding it myself, I felt helpless and sad, missing my dear necklace, my only birthday gift, with cold tears rolling along my cheek.
But I saw a pair of beautiful red shoes appearing in front of me, and their hostess asked me if I need help. It’s Amy! I was so surprised that a lot of girls were around her, and offered their warm hands. So moved, I couldn’t stop the hot tears rolling down. For Amy, I was a stranger, but she liked to help me instead of doing other things; if I were she, could I? To be honest, I didn’t know. Maybe I couldn’t sacrifice a wonderful night to help others only for one necklace, but she did. When she handed me the necklace with a lot of swear, after one hour, I didn’t know how to thank her, a girl with a warm heart. I ever misunderstood her, but now she is a model that I should study from, both of her virtue and her warm heart.
I no longer comment a person without trying to understand, because everyone is a book, needing others’ understanding, one third of which it is possible for us to understand at least. Knowing a person through their action, not just the appearance, we become more objective and more sensitive. Accompanying with the heart which can understand others, I believe that I’ll meet more fantasy in the voyage of life!