i know i am not a little girl any more,i will marry you soon and establish our family,but i really feel that live together with my grandma in my home is the most happiest,i can do what i want to do/i can say what i want to say...if i feel tired i can sleep and get up late,but at your home i should be a good daughter-in-law and do what i should do,otherwise,your mother and sister will dislike me maybe including you,in a word,i will live as like a robot without self freedom and thinking...