每个人面对压力的宣泄的方式是不一样的吧 所以不用在乎别人怎么想的啊!楼主你只要觉得自己这样内心可以得到释放又无愧与你的奶奶就行了啊!
my sister always told me:everything has their own way.the differece just sometimes just because of the different people,what they did may just wanna let this be what they wanna be----happy.