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Hold my hand

A little girl and her father were crossing a bridge. The father was kind of scared so he asked his little daughter, "Sweetheart, please hold my hand so that you don't fall into the river." The little girl said, "No, Dad. You hold my hand." "What's the difference?" Asked the puzzled father..
"There's a big difference," replied the little girl. "If I hold your hand and something happens to me, chances are that I may let your hand go. But if you hold my hand, I know for sure that no matter what happens, you will never let my hand go." In any relationship, the essence of trust is not in its bind, but in its bond. So hold the hand of the person whom you love rather than expecting them to hold yours . .


译文:一个小女孩和她的爸爸正在过桥。爸爸有点害怕，所以他跟他的小女儿说：“宝贝，请牵住我的手，那样子的话，你就不会掉进河里了。”小女骇回答道：“不，爸爸，你抓住我的手。”爸爸疑惑的问：“有什么区别吗？”
小女孩说：“区别大呢，如果我抓住你的手的时候发生什么事，我就可以放开你的手。但是如果是你抓住我的手，我保证不管发生什么事，你都不会放开我的手。”不管是哪中人际关系，信任不受任何约束。所以，请牵住你所爱的人的手，而不是期待被牵着。