You cannot control what happens to you, but you can control your attitude toward what happens to you, and in that, you will be mastering change rather than allowing it to master you.
虽然你无法改变在你身上发生的事情，却绝对可以改变你的态度；果如是，则你便可以驾驭一切改变，而不会被改变所制肘。