【45 lessons in life人生教我的45堂课 】

1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.
人生是不公平，但还是好得很。

2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.
怀疑的时候，朝著未来踏出一小步。

3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.
人生太短，短到来不及浪费时间去恨任何人。

4. Your job won‘t take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and parents will. Stay in touch.
生病的时候，你的工作不会照顾你；你的朋友和父母会。与他们保持联系。

5. Pay off your credit cards every month.
每个月付清你的信用卡。

6. You don't have to win every argument.
Agree to disagree.
你不需要每一次都吵赢。同意你不同意的。

7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone.
找人一起哭，比独自啜泣更加疗愈。

8. It's OK to get angry with God. He can take it.
对上帝生气没有关系，他受得了。

9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.
退休存款从你的第一张薪水单开始。

11. Make peace with your past so it won‘t screw up the present.
与你的过去和解，别让它搞砸你的当下。

12. It's OK to let your children see you cry.
让你的孩子看到你哭没有关系。

13. Don't compare your life to others.
You have no idea what their journey is all about.
别拿自己的人生与他人比较，你根本不清楚他们的人生是怎麼一回事。

14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn‘t be in it.
如果一段亲密关系要偷偷摸摸，你根本不应该涉入。