Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up; 爱是恒久忍耐,又有恩慈;爱是不嫉妒;爱是不自夸,不张狂; Does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil; 不作害羞的事,不求自己的益处,不轻易发怒,不计算人的恶, Does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth; 不喜欢不义,只喜欢真理; Bears all things, believe that things, hopes all things, endures all things. 凡事包容,凡事相信,凡事盼望,凡事忍耐。 Love never fails. 爱是永不止息。 ——《圣经》
[双语]成功必须具备的五大条件 2012-11-09 09:47:50 1. Learning. Losers get defensive and don't want to hear about their many failings, so they avoid feedback. Winners are more likely to voluntarily discuss mistakes and accept negative feedback, because they are comfortable that they can win. Because they are confident about the possibility of winning, they see practicing as a route to a positive outcome, not as a punishment. 1. 学习。失败者不想听到他们的失败,从而无法得到有效的反馈。成功者相信自己会赢,所以会自发讨论自己的不足,而且更容易接受负面意见。成功者心态积极,把刻苦训练作为取得胜利的途径,而失败者则把训练视作惩罚。 2. Freedom to focus. As every golfer and tennis player knows, you must keep your eye on the ball. Losers often punish themselves in their heads. Winners have fewer distractions. Golf pro Tiger Woods won nearly every championship until hit with personal problems of his own making, which was followed by loses on the golf course. 2. 全神贯注。高尔夫球和网球运动员都知道,必须把精力高度集中于比赛。失败者往往会被杂念影响,成功者则很少分心。职业高尔夫球员老虎伍兹赢得了几乎所有的冠军,直到因被自己的婚姻问题影响,导致球场上的失败。 3. Positive culture of mutual respect. For anyone who plays on a team, winning makes it easier to respect and listen to one another, because after all, if you win together, then the presumption is that everyone is a good player. Winners can maintain high aspirations and act generously toward others. Losers are more likely to blame others and disdain them as mediocre, creating a culture of finger-pointing and infighting.