3. Try to change another person. When you realize that you cannot force someone into doing something, you give him or her freedom and allow them to experience the consequences. In doing so, you find your own freedom as well.
3.不会尝试改变他人。当意识到你不可能强迫他人做事情时，你就给了他人做事以及自己承担事情后果的自由。而与此同时，你也让自己获得了自由。

4. Believe they can please everyone. Once you get that it truly is impossible to please everyone, you begin to live purposefully, trying to please the right people.
4.不相信自己能取悦所有人。一旦你明白了你不可能取悦所有的人，你的生活就会更有目标，你会努力取悦那些应该取悦的人。

5. Choose short-term comfort over long-term benefit. Once successful people know they want something that requires a painful, time-limited step, they do not mind the painful step because it gets them to a long-term benefit.
5.不会为了暂时的享受而牺牲长久的利益。成功的人在知道自己得到想要的东西之前需要先经历痛苦时，他们不会因此退缩，因为他们清楚痛苦是暂时的，从中得到的益处是长久的。

6. Trust someone or something that appears flawless. When someone or something looks too good to be true, he, she, or it is. The world is imperfect. No one and no thing is without flaw, and if they appear that way, hit pause.
6.不相信世界是完美无瑕的。如果有些人或物看起来完美到不真实的地步的话，那么他或她或它就一定有什么问题。这个世界就是不完美的。没有人或物是完美无暇的，如果有就一定得多留意。

7. Take their eyes off the big picture. We function better emotionally and perform better in our lives when we can see the big picture. For successful people, no one event is ever the whole story.
7.不会鼠目寸光。如果我们看待事情能够更长远、更宏观，我们就能在生活中表现得更好。对于成功的人来说，任何事都不能只看眼前。

9. Fail to ask why they are where they find themselves. One of the biggest differences between successful people and others is that in love and in life, in relationships and in business, successful people always ask themselves, what part am I playing in this situation? Said another way, they do not see themselves only as victims, even when they are.
9.不会忘记发挥自己的作用。成功人士与其他人最大的一个不同之处在于，不管是在恋爱和生活中，还是在人际交往和生意场上，成功的人会不断问自己，我的作用是什么?换句话说，对成功的人来说，即使他们是真正的受害者，他们也从不把自己当做受害者。

10. Forget that their inner life determines their outer success. The good life sometimes has little to do with outside circumstances. We are happy and fulfilled mostly by who we are on the inside.
10.不会忘记是内心世界决定了外在的成功。优质的生活有时与外在的处境毫无关系。我们感到幸福和充实，很大一不部分原因在于我们的内在感受。

6. If you are passionate about something, pursue it, no matter what anyone else thinks. That's how dreams are achieved。
6. 如果你想要什么，那就勇敢地去追求，不要管别人是怎么想的，因为这就是实现梦想的方式。
7. Give up worrying about what others think of you. What they think isn't important. What is important is how you feel about yourself。
7. 不要为别人怎么看你而烦恼。别人的看法并不重要，重要的是你怎么看待你自己。
8. You can learn great things from your mistakes when you aren't busy denying them。
8. 当你不再急于否认错误时，你就学到了重要的一课。
9. Never let success get to your head, and never let failure get to your heart。
9. 不要让成功冲昏了头脑，也不要把失败记在心里。
10. Life is short and you deserve to be happy。
10. 生命苦短，你应该过得开心些。

我想悲痛的遭遇可以让人变得强大。——《生活向前冲》
I guess there's something empowering about havingsome absolutely horrible thing happen toyou.

知识和耐心，是击败强者的唯一方法。——《斯巴达克斯》
Knowledge and patience. The onlycounter to greater skill.

你想要做坏人，就得坏得有目的。否则你就不值得原谅。——《吸血鬼日记》
If you'regonna be bad, be bad with purpose. Otherwise you're just not worthforgiving.

孤独、心碎以及牺牲，这是有梦想的女人今后必将面对的。——《美国恐怖故事》
The loneliness, theheartbreak, the sacrifice you'll face as a woman with a dream on herown.

在一个人自身无力反抗时，超级英雄能满足他们心中的愿望。——《生活大爆炸》
In a world wher you can'tfight back, superheroes provide meaningful wish-fulfilment.

最好不要忽略过去
而是从中得到些教训，否则 历史会不断重复上演。——《绯闻女孩》
Better not to ignore the past but learn fromit instead. Otherwise, history has a way of repeatingitself.

别让你的骄傲使你孤独一人。——《吸血鬼日记》
Don't let your pride leave you allalone.